The Bum
Its name changes depending on where you live. In UK, the word 'bum' is a common term, but in other parts of the world it is more commonly know as the buttocks, butt arse, etc. There are a whole host of words in common use that are linked to the bum, and are inevitably derogatory in some form or another. For example: beach bum, butt end etc. The bum is a much maligned part of the body. We all have one and every one is different. It is basically formed by two masses of the gluteal muscles. The two muscles are separated by a cleft or crack, in which the anus is situated.

In humans, the anus is cunningly concealed by the buttocks. This is not so in the case of many animals nor is it in the case of our ancestors such as monkeys, chimpanzees etc. True, it was a result of us becoming homo erectus that achieved this result. Not that there need be any shame attached to the anus being visible - but probably we would prefer not be reminded on a daily basis of why it is there or of the smelly business of evacuation of the bowels.

A Confused Society

Society's reaction to the bum is confused to say the least. It is probably the proximity of the excretory function of the anus that is the root cause of human hostility to the buttocks.

Willfully exposing one's own bare bum can be used as a protest, a provocation or for fun is called mooning. On the other hand having one's bare buttocks exposed by another unexpectedly and in public, can be a source of humiliation.

In common with other crazy aspects of our society, what is shunned by many in reality is flaunted when covered by a small amount of fabric, and this is certainly true of the bum. Clothing can be used to accentuate the bum. Some articles are designed specifically to show off the bum or to expose it. Wearing only thong underwear is done to hide "panty lines", as creases in underwear can break the smooth line of the body. Both of these choices are under taken for style.

Modern clothing styles in UK for women are for lower and lower hipster trousers and jeans. The lowness of cut can actually expose the top of the 'crack' similar to a 'builders bum'.

Some consider a well-formed bum to be a sexually pleasing important part of one's physical attractiveness. However, the definition of "well-formed" is up for debate, as sexual aesthetics of the buttocks vary considerably from culture to culture, per fashionable style period and even from person to person.

Although the bum is only muscle, and in UK it is not illegal, but I have heard the odd story about ladies turning up at public swimming pools wearing thongs or very skimpy outfits and getting the odd strange look but that's usually as far as it goes, I suspect that if a man was to do this he would not receive such a favorable reaction. You can't help but think that if society does not and don't understand it', they turn away and usually label it, 'perverted'.

But when you strip way the clothing, then the bum is certainly more than something that you just sit on.

Spanking

The bum is a major target for punishment. When I was at school punishment would be in the form of caning the backside. I'm not sure why the bum was the target?

For many adults, giving and receiving spankings and other types of corporal punishment is an intense, powerful, and often erotic experience. It can lead to intense trust, wonderful emotional releases, delicious naughty feelings, and a great deal of fun, sometimes sexual, sometimes not.

Read about Bill's desire to be submissive and his addiction to caining:

The Anus

The anus is full of thousands of nerve endings both inside and outside, making it very sensitive. For some people, the anus is an erogenous zone that can respond to sexual touch and stimulation. For others, it's a hands-off zone that needs to be respected. It is okay to enjoy anal stimulation, and it's also okay to dislike it - both preferences are common.

Anal sex play is often associated with gay men. However, many men and women, regardless of whether they're gay, lesbian, straight, or bisexual, enjoy anal stimulation. And many, including gay men, don't. Some straight couples use anal sex as a way to preserve the woman's virginity. For those who like it, anal stimulation can be part of masturbation, intercourse, or oral sex.

Anal intercourse is sex play that involves insertion of the penis or a sex toy into the anus. Generally, for women, pleasure is derived through anal intercourse due to the shared nerve endings that are located between the rectal wall and the vagina. The anus itself also contains many nerves which can also react in a pleasurable manner when excited.

On the other hand, males who participate in anal sex have different reasons for the pleasure experienced. Men who have anal sex with penetration of a female partner generally cite the tightness of the anus as a primary source of pleasure, while males receiving anal intercourse generally gain pleasure through the prostate gland that is located near the rectal wall.

So how common is anal sex, and is it just the preserve of the gay society?
According to a recent study of young hetrosexual people, about one fifth of them had had anal sex in the past year. The full report is given here, it not just surveys the numbers involved, but also why they do it and how painful some people find it.

It is possible to take advantage of all those nerve endings without the need to insert a penis into the anus. There would appear to be a never ending list of things that people attempt to insert into their anus. You can buy a whole range of butt plugs and dildos, ranging from the very thin to the extreme.

However, you do not need to spend money on such devices as your local fruit or wine shop can provide just what you need.

However, you should be aware that using any sort of glassware as an anal dildo can be unwise, unless it was a purpose made dildo of toughened glass. Far better to go with fruit/veg, a proper dildo or penis. I've heard of someone who used a wooden tool handle and ended up with a splinter, very difficult to explain away at A&E.

A final word of advice for beginners wanting to try the Anus as a source of pleasure, play safe and use plenty of lubricant and it can be an enjoyable experience.

How to Safely Stretch Your Anus for Anal Play

How to Have an Anal Orgasm: 35 Tips for You and Your Partner

Anal Sex Safety: Everything You Need to Know

Beyond the anus there is the prostate gland that is relatively easy to massage using the Aneros and other devices, which can provide much pleasure.

The Bum and Anus

For such a contentious part of the body, the naked bum and its anus are surprisingly observed and un-photographed. The anus must be the most hidden part of the external body. It rarely sees the light of day, in fact I suspect that most people have never seen their own anus. Obviously being located where it is it is impossible to see it directly, but with the use of a mirror or camera you can have a look at your own anus.

Your anus may be hidden away, but once discovered it can offer great pleasures, so don't hide it. So if you fancy putting an end to all that, why not join me in the bum and anus gallery.

Certanly some anuses are verging on things of beauty, so feel free to submit your close-up photos.

Also feel free to also include close-up photos any photos of common or unusual dildos in use. Needless to say, it is open to both men and women.

This is my anus, which I do not regard as a thing of beauty! However, if you fancy showing the world your anus, take a a photo, email it to me, and I'll add it to the gallery!

I suspect that in the male world, men might be put off from showing their anus to strangers (or even friends) as the body language can be mis-interpreted as offering yourself up for anal sex. In some cases this may well be the case, but personally it is just another part of the facinating human body, so whow not let others see it if they want, maybe enjoy the sight and maybe be better informed!

On the subject of being better informed, because it is ie so well hidden away, people have little idea, how your anus behaves during events that are really not connected to the anus. A prime example is during ejaculation, when although things are furiously happening penis wise, your anus does not get left out! Have a look at this demonstration:

The video below is not me but shows some lovely anal contractions while using a Fleshlight

Bum and Anus Gallery

John W - I like to think of my anus as being public property rather than a private part. Certainly it's been a well-trodden path - I reckon about a thousand penises have been inside it, not to mention tongues and fingers. I like to think my bum has given a lot of pleasure to guys from all over the world. You'll see in one pic I'm using an anal expander, as I like to keep myself ready. I do find, though, that there's a limit to how loose I want my anus to get, and how much pain I'm willing to endure. So there are some guys who are just too big for me and I've been really sorry to disappoint them. It's also why I've never been fully fisted. One guy in a sauna in Newcastle did get pretty close but couldn't quite get his knuckles past my sphincter. Maybe I need to meet a guy with smaller hands!

The most painful experiences I've had, which might be a cautionary tale for your readers, came from being penetrated by a couple of guys with bent penises. The first was an American soldier who gave me a good fucking in a sauna in Japan. The second was a guy who had me in the dunes behind a beach in Alicante, Spain. Both had penises that had very marked sideways kinks on their shafts. It was a bit painful at the time, but it was afterwards that I really suffered. The first time I was really sore for a few days. The second time it went on longer and I had to get medical attention. So be careful out there!

Steve's Jewellery The chain is attached to a large paper clip, I then insert the clip into my anus and the chain hangs down. Sounds uncomfortable but it really isn't.. it feels very nice. It doesn't fall out either and can be worn whilst walking, sitting, driving, etc. I have also worn it at the beach. I think it looks great!

Dave with a screwdriver and vibrator

Dave with a banana

Dave with a courgette

John's butt plug

The following 6 photos are from Silvia, who is always interested in making contact with other naturists

		Calum

		Darek from Poland

David, who thinks that an orgasm achieved whilst masturbating with the aneros inserted is rather wonderful.

		Rye His interests include massage, sauna, walking, cycling, fetish, ball weights, oral, masturbation, etc!

John from British Columbia

Manuel does not use a vacuum pump, but his asshole is prolapsed because he was brutally fucked from a young age. He obviously enjoys it as he loves to be fisted inside his asshole.
His bum is very sensitive and needs a very large cocks for his big prolapsed asshole, thats why he loves to be brutally fisted hehe!!
He has many admirers and, many love to put their arms inside it, and to lick and suck my prolapse big lips!!!

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David's Experence in a Turkish Hammam

Well, I think you'll be interested in what happened today. I thought I would try to find out what is really going on at Turkish Hammams. I was on a business trip so I took time out to go to a very old Hammam in the industrial part of town. This Hammam is surrounded by a very rough, poor area with lots of car mechanics, ironmongers, and other trade businesses, but very near to the centre of the city with the tourists shops about 50 meters away.

I feel now I have a better understanding of the Hammam culture. I went into the building, which is over 150 years old. There is only a sheet hung up at the entrance and after that a set of stairs going down into a large area with raised beds all round it, with curtains for privacy. The owner was sat in the middle of the room with another man, with just shorts on. He looked about 75 or more. He came over and introduced himself, asked me where I was from and I said I was Canadian. He seemed pleased and then showed me around and said it was 10 Euros entrance and the same for a massage but there was no masseure there until 6pm which was five hours away. I said I would come back which I did. He gave me a towel to wrap around myself and directed me to one of the private raised beds so I stripped off and went into the sauna rooms

There are about five rooms in this Hammam plus toilet. I made my way into the four inner rooms through a metal door. Inside was a medium sized room with tiled benches around the wall with sinks built into them. There was a large dark man in his mid to late thirties sitting in the room with just a towel. Ahead were two other rooms which were laid out the same way. I went to one and a fit young man in his thirties was lying naked on the floor on his stomach. I then went into the other room which was similar.

After only a few seconds the thinner man came to the door of the room and looked in and gestured to me. I gestured back and he came in. He spoke Turkish and said a few words. I couldn't really follow what he was saying but told him in broken Turkish that it was my third time at the Hammam. He stood for a brief moment and then let his towel drop to expose his penis. I did the same and he said he was Turkish and made a cutting gestures because he was circumcised. I then slid my foreskin back to show I was not a Muslim. My penis started to become hard and rise up and he gave me a thumbs up and took hold of my penis so I did the same to his. We then masturbated each other for a short while. He then made a gesture to his bum asking if I wanted anal sex but I didn't understand whether he meant me fucking him so I tried to explain I preferred to fuck him. He then gestured that the other man was very big and said "maybe, we see", as if to say he wanted to know what the other guy was going to do.

He then left the room and went into a fourth room which had a massage table of marble in it and the big guy followed him. I slowly made my way to see what was going on and the big guy was washing down the other man who was bending over the massage table, naked. The big guy had his towel on. After a minute or two the fit guy got onto the massage table and the big guy went around to the top of the table and was washing him from that angle. I then went into the room and started washing myself as well. I was semi erect by that time. The big guy still had his towel around him but I noticed that the fit guy was playing with the big guy's penis which was quite thick but not terribly long. After a minute or so I then noticed that the fit guy was sucking the other guy's penis. The big guy then gestured me to come over so I did. He gestured to the back of the fit guy so I started giving him a massage on the back and legs. I could see he had an erection as his penis was between his legs, even though he was on his stomach. The big guy then reached down and washed between the fit guy's buttocks so I took that as a prompt to do the same and started massaging his anus. After a short while, the big guy gestured for me to get up on the table and I pointed to between the fit guy's buttocks and the big guy nodded so I climbed onto the table and got between the fit guy's legs and continued to massage his anus. The big guy gestured for me to enter the fit guy and by this time I had a pretty hard erection so I began pushing my cock into him. I was still a bit soft so I couldn't penetrate him. The big guy, seeing this reached down and put his fingers in the fit guy's anus and then I tried again but still had no luck. The big guy then broke off from his blow job, and came around the side of the table and started working away at the fit guy's anus and then I put the head of my penis in the fit guy's anus and tried again to enter him. The big guy then reached under my crotch and began masturbating me to get me harder and helped push my penis into the fit guy.

With a bit of gentle pushing I felt the head of my penis enter him and I then slowly worked my whole penis into him. I lowered myself right down onto the fit guy and started gently but firmly gliding my penis in and out. I had no condom on so this was my first bareback experience.

As I was fucking the fit guy the big guy went back to the top of the table and continued to receive oral from the fit guy so we "spit roasted" the fit guy for a few minutes. Then the big guy again came around the side of the table and climbed up onto the table behind me and began trying to insert his penis into me. I've mentioned this before that it is painful, so he didn't initially get very far but after a while he got partially in so we had a moment or so when I was in between the two of them.

The big guy then got off the table so I took that as an opportune time to stop give him a blow job. This lasted only for a matter of seconds and I then decided to stop having sex with the fit guy, got off the table and washed myself down.

The fit guy then got off the table and we were all stood together naked with erections. I have to say that by this time, I felt perfectly comfortable as it seemed entirely normal and friendly, and very matter of fact. They both were obviously not new to this and were happy to help me out with the procedures and protocols.

The big guy then got on the table and lay on his back and the fit guy climbed onto him and lowered himself onto the big guy's erect penis and began enjoying what turned into a fairly lengthy anal sex session. The fit guy was erect and I thought about masturbating him, but they both seemed happy as they were so I didn't engage in any further acts with them. After a while they stopped, got off the table and the big guy went out of the sauna area. We then exchanged a few words. The thin guy asked if I was finished and he began making his way to the door. I said no, but I don't think he understood what my intentions were and neither did I. He pointed at my penis and gave me a thumbs up and said "good", as if he had enjoyed it. I was also needing to go to an appointment so I also made my way out into the communal foyer area where the owner came over and asked if I wanted a towel.

After a few minutes of cooling down, another tall young man, quite dark and swarthy turned up. He had a shirt on saying he worked for an internet company. He got undressed and disappeared into the sauna. The owner handed him something wrapped in plastic which I assumed was a condom. The thin guy turned to me at about this point and asked me if I wanted more but I declined. He then disappeared back into the sauna where he would undoubtedly have had sex with the new man.

I then got dressed, paid and left.

I found this experience very enlightening. None of these guys looked "gay" in any way. They just looked like ordinary guys who were engaged in a normal pass time which had no stigmas for them and they plainly engaged in routinely and with everyone knowing exactly what the rule book was and what to expect.

I've been to a Greek Hammam and had a massage but they require you wear a swim suit there and it is very ornate and luxurious with men and women working there. The guy who gave me a massage was fully dressed and gave me a great massage but I didn't even dare broach the subject of any additional services.

The Turkish Hammam is very different. My feeling now is that Turkish men, as is said about them generally, have always engaged routinely in sex with other men. It's part of their culture.

What was quite odd about the experience is that if felt I had turned up at a sporting event where we were all going to play a game and they were happy to show me the rules and help out, and wanted to know if I was wanting to do more. There were no hang-ups to it, nothing that made it seem anything other than a routine thing that everyone did without question.

I had been to this Hammam before and had a wash from the owner. On both occasions, no other men were there, so I had no idea what actually went on. I wasn't sure whether men went there just for the sauna, or for a massage, or sex or a mix of those.

Now, I feel sure that this particular Hammam is only frequented by men who have sex with other men and that it is an age-old custom among them, which everyone knows and accepts as normal without any stigma that it makes a man "gay" or "bi". All these guys looked like workers or tradesmen. None were effeminate or mincing queens. There was no emotion or talking about anything. It was just a routine of their lives, like going to a film or to a pub to play darts.

It's fascinating to me that this tradition still exists in these backstreet traditional Hammams.

Now I know what it is about, I think I will investigate further and see if I can make it a regular thing even if only once every few months or so, and pick a time when I can maybe get more involved.

So, there it is! Quite an eye-opener. I'd heard in sort of joking terms about the Turks being into anal sex but now I've seen it for myself.

David

Gerard's Story:

I've always had a bit of thing for bums, I just love the look and feel of bum cheeks! Playing with my bum started about the same time I went through puberty. It was in the 80s and I was at an all boys boarding school anbd whilst there was plenty of masturbation and typical secretive adolescent touching, the bum was a complete no-go! It was something that gay guys did and no-one would admit to being gay back then! It was that secrecy and tabou-ness that piqued my interest.

I started to explore myself with my fingers and really enjoyed the feeling of touching my anus. That soon moved on to a pen and for sometime I used to push a pen up my bum whenever I masturbated! One day when I was 14 or 15 a friend of mine and I started sharing secrets and we ended up kissing, stripping and masturbating each other. We had a bit of a relationship and used to visit each others beds in the middle of the night when we felt horny! It was on one those nights when I started trying to finger his bum. He didn't like it but was quite happy to play with mine, so we had a little bit of fun, trying out various things in my bum. I really enjoyed a hairbrush handle and that became part of our ritual!

I lost my anal virginity at university in pretty memorable circumstances! I'd made a couple of friends who were gay and invited me to a party at their house. There were mainly gay guys there and it started to get quite lively. We were playing spin the bottle and quite intentionally I got naked very quickly as did another guy and everyone started to feel us up and fondle us. After a lot of touching one guy turned me over and rubbed his penis between my buttocks. I really enjoyed the feeling so I let him continue and others were looking on and cheering. He then put on a condom and using saliva for lube entered my. It was a little painful, but my overall feeling was one of huge pleasure! Having started the evening as a virgin, but the end of the night I had received anal sex from about 6 guys!

Strangely I have never really had the desire to top (give anal sex) to other guys. I have done it, but I prefer a bottom role.

The next big event in my anal journey was bareback sex. This was on a nude beach in Spain. I was alone and sunbathing in an empty part of the beach when I was 21 and a guy approached me and started feeling my body. Before long he had turned me over on all fours and pushed his bare erection into my bum. I was really excited, so although I had always used condoms I let him continue and he came inside me. It was a real thrill and such a mental rush. I felt really submissive, but happy and relieved at the same time. It is something that I continued to allow to happen for a number of years, but watched a TV programme and started to get really paranoid about HIV. I got tested and am clear, but the worry really isn't worth it, so it's back to safe sex for me these days!

There's one other part of anal play worth a mention and that's rimming.It sounds revolting to most people, but if you're completely clean and nice and smoooth it really is the peak of intimacy.

This story is from John

I'm proud to say I've been fucked repeatable by over fifty men. I'm pretty sure I've been penetrated over a thousand times. Pretty good, for being in a rural area, and have only been having gay sex for 15 years. I am definitely open for any man to fuck me.
I personally like the word fuck, as it describes perfectly for me what men are doing to me. I like it to sound dirty, as sex should be.

The first time I was fucked, some friends had come to visit, and we had planned on doing a double penetration with Arlene. As luck would have it, she has started her period that day, so didn't want to play. So I asked outright if her husband would like to fuck me? I was so horny I would do anything for relief. Both of them are very experienced with anal sex with both men and women. They took their time preparing me, fingering my ass to start stretching me, and lubing me well. It was actually quite easy for him to enter me. I felt no discomfort, and knew after the first couple thrusts that I loved being fucked.

I don't think my ass has stretched any larger as a result of being fucked so often. I can take a 2" diameter dildo or cock easily, The only discomfort I have had was two had cocks that were very thick, and were painful on entry. After they were inside of me and started fucking, I really enjoyed it, as I like to let men cum inside of me. I much prefer being fucked bareback.

The only other time it hurt was when I was raped with no lube. He caught me bent over in a position I was easily trapped, and couldn't stand up once he was behind me. He is a good friend, and we have sucked each other many times, but he had never fucked me before. Had he asked and prepared me before penetrating me, I would have had no problem with it. It was a relief when he came inside me, as he continued fucking me, and his semen made a good lube. That didn't take away the initial pain though. I'm sure he had took Viagra, for as long as he was able to stay inside of me, being in a position I couldn't escape from. Had he properly asked and lubed me first, I wouldn't have cared how long he fucked me, as I like men who can stay hard a long time.

I did have a memorable weekend when I met four college guys at a local ski resort. They took turns fucking me for a day and a half. I'm sure they penetrated me at least a couple dozen times. After they had cum the first time and got hard again, it seemed like they had endlessly hard cocks. That is the only time I've been fucked to my total satisfaction. They didn't get much skiing done.

I don't cum every time I'm fucked, but the thoughtful fuckers do suck me off. If they don't, I jack off while talking to them, and let them watch me eat my cum.

Just remember that it is rude to not swallow a man's semen. When you suck a man's cock, finish the job properly.

This story is from David:

Congratulation on another groundbreaking and interesting addition to your web pages. I have had a quick read of the new section and have found it great fun and so I have attached a couple of photos to see if they are worth putting on the page. Being a married guy I have always been reluctant to admit to enjoying anal stimulation, maybe the problem of not wanting to be labelled or categorised. It’s a lot like oral sex, some people participate and others find it dirty or objectionable and we have to discover what is and is not acceptable to our partners. My wife enjoys me going down on her but will not return the pleasure and she will not allow anal sex or play with my anus. This is not a problem since I love to give her oral sex and have other ways of getting anal stimulation.

I have always enjoyed masturbation since I found out how good it felt to get erect and play with my cock. At first it was the sensation of orgasm that generated the enjoyment but then the playing and arousal that got me to the edge of orgasm and holding it there as long as possible. Staying erect or partly erect all day is great and one of the reasons I enjoy nudity so much. As a growing teenager I had a few friends with whom I shared some time masturbating and one of those enjoyed playing with his nipples as much as his penis but for whatever reason I have never got any particular stimulation from that area. Growing up in the 60’s being “queer” was not accepted as readily as today’s acceptance of being gay (labels again) so I never explored my bum since it was girls not boys that interested me and they were what I enjoyed masturbating over or their pictures. I started to discover anal stimulation in my early 30’s, while in the shower. I guess I was enjoying masturbating while washing and while washing my bum found I had some enjoyable feeling from my anus area resulting in me washing my anus with soapy fingers and basically finger fucking my arse. (Crude but how else do you describe it) Like masturbation once you start you find variations that are either enjoyable so you carry on or not so good and try something else. So next day, after a morning doing nude DIY between playing with my penis, I was in the shower before work and there was this plastic handle screwdriver handy so with a bit of soap and water I enjoyed my first home made dildo and the feeling when I came with it still inserted up my anus was mind-blowing. I still have it as you see from the attached photo. This lead to a search of the house and tool shed for any penis shaped objects and quite a few items ended up being inserted. I remember a small hand fork with a round handle being inserted and then I cut the grass nude, in those days the back garden was totally private.

Like most things in life one step leads to another and I met a very gay guy at a nudist beach and he asked me outright if I would like to fuck him. (Crude again but that’s what he offered) We found a secluded spot and with condom and KY Jelly I enjoyed my first anus. I’m not sure what I expected but he was smooth and slightly tight but I think we both enjoyed it, I know I did. That experience set off other thoughts, could I enjoy someone’s penis up me? What would it be like and dare I go for it? Finally the situation happened and I agreed to let a guy fuck me for the first time. Again at a nudist beach or the dunes and it really turned me on it was so different and the feeling so intense as he gently penetrated my anus and then slowly at first began to fuck me. It turned out he was married as I met his wife the following week and while I tried to avoid the meeting just in case he didn’t want her to know since while he was naked she was in a one piece swim suit. He deliberately went out of his way to talk to me and then introduced me to his wife as, “the young guy I shagged last week.” No immediate divorce just a polite hello and you would think he had introduced me as an old school friend.

That’s how I lost my virginity and found I enjoyed being shagged or fucked whatever you want to call it. There are rules, size matters but not a lot, condoms are a must as is a lubricant. Take it steady to start until sure it fits, enjoy it. Failing that I am looking at the fruit and vegetables and will get the camera out if I can send some more photos? Any preference as I love showing off.

Regarding my second meeting with the guy that shagged me. It was a week after our first encounter and they were already settled on the edge of the sand dunes behind a windbreak. I had been working that morning so I was early afternoon when I got to the beach. Once I got to the nudist part I like to strip off and then find a sheltered spot to sunbathe. Some days it is easy to find somewhere, others, when it is busy can take some walking, but I enjoy a nude walk.

So I was walking along nude when he stood up behind the windbreak, we were near enough to recognise each other. He came out to meet me and of course he was nude as well. However, by the time we met I could see round the end of the windbreak and could see his wife or partner sat there reading a book but could see she was not nude. We stood and exchanged pleasantries for a couple of minutes and then he invited me to shelter from the small breeze that was blowing and just taking the edge off the sun. I asked if his wife would mind me being nude and he just said it was Ok she was used to it, so I went back to the windbreak with him and that's when he dropped the bombshell, "this is the guy I shagged last week." She put down the book and looked up and said something like, "Did you enjoy it?" I was totally lost, what do you say or do faced with the matter of fact conversation like that? I just told her I had enjoyed it and it had been my first time. I though if they can be so laid back about it so can I. Then she said, "I'm not very keen having it up there, but Colin likes a bit of bum so I let him go and find some now and then, it keeps him happy and if you enjoyed it too everyone's happy."

Then the conversation went off into how often I visited the beach and all the other trivial things people talk about. She was very pleasant and good to talk to and you would think it was the most natural thing in the world for her to be talking to a naked stranger that had been shagged by her husband. The fun thing would have been to do it again while she watched but it didn't turn out that way.

Just for the record the first time I was shagged or fucked was great, Colin and I were both naked (I have been every time I have been shagged) and he got me to lie face down and then lay on top of me entering me very slowly and gently so there was no sharp pain or anything unpleasant and it was a lot more fun than a screwdriver. Since then I have been shagged twice on my hands and knees, which allows either of us to play with my penis. I was fucked once while standing up but bent forward resting my hands on my knees but this is not a position I would try again unless there was something solid to hold on to. I had trouble staying upright and it took a lot of the enjoyment out of it. It didn't help with the guy getting a bit carried away and thrusting a bit vigorously. Twice now I have been shagged while on my back with my legs and feet in the air or resting on the guy's shoulders. I enjoyed both times and particularly the first time as we were caught naked by two other guys who just stood and watched for a few minutes as we carried on. There was no way of hiding what we had been doing and the two guys didn't say anything to stop us so we carried on. I would just love to have had some photos taken for the memories.

I am passive when it comes to sex which means it is me who receives anal and also sucks the men's cocks. My experiences are with John and with John and his friends. Normally I would kneel in front of John and suck him until he was fully hard, when he was he would then finger me and use a lubricant, this would normally take half an hour or so and would then involve a toy, always very slow and gentle so not to hurt me.

This normally went on until my hole remained open when dildo was removed. This means you feel relaxed. John would then normally lay down on floor and I would sit on his cock and it would go in quite easily. Also I would be sat on it facing away from him as he liked to see it going in and out. If his friends were there they would be stood round in circle while I gave them suckings at the same time too. Condoms always worn for anal but taken off for oral as John liked to see get sperm on me, especially from his friends too. lol. If it ever hurts then things stop and more lubricant is applied and the toy re-used. The whole thing normal is about an hour I suppose, but if his friends are there its usually much longer, and thats when positions are a lot different as all positions have to be one in mouth one in bum etc throughout. I have preferred doing it with John and his friends really, because it seems more fun and also they give loads of praise while I`m doing it which is good to get.

David's Thoughts on the Subject

Why would one be attracted to a particular part of the body? What makes the breasts or legs or navel or feet or buttocks so attractive to some, but not others. And what is it with the recent fashion for girls to shave off their pubic hair? (I did have a theory about why men found this attractive, based on the theory that in my youth in 1960s the porn of the day, mostly H&E in A5 format, did not show pubes, so a whole generation grew up expecting girls not to have a hairy minge. This theory falls flat in 2006 as pubes have been shown for decades but men still like the smooth look.)

But I digress as this is about bottoms, and I really like bottoms but I can not explain why.

I thought I might share a few bum moments with you and see if you concur that the events are sexy.

This summer a friend came to visit, a young lady who enjoys the naturist lifestyle. She spent the whole weekend naked. Late on Sunday evening it was time for her to leave so I accompanied her and her partner to the gate of the naturist club to let them out. As they walked down the lane she lifted her skirt and flashed her bare bum at me. OK so she was going home commando. I had seen her bum all weekend, so why would a two second flash be so exciting?

A few years back I went to a fetish exhibition in London. Lots of trade stands selling sex toys and a fashion show. Rather fun, a naughty but nice atmosphere. There were two girls wandering around the hall with big feather headdresses and feather tails. I caught a glimpse of them from a distance and assumed the feathers were attached to their bums as part of their pants. Oh no, the feathers were attached to a dildo up the anus. So you have to ask, what's it like having feathers sticking out your arse? Apparently rather nice, as you move the feathers jiggle the dildo and it stimulates the nerve endings in the anus.

There was another girl wandering around the shown a short skirt. She kept dropping her handbag, when she bent over to pick it up her knickers showed, and there was an advertising slogan on her bum. I remember her bum vividly, I have no idea what she was promoting. One advertising campaign that failed.

Apparently Marilyn Monroe has an eight of an inch trimmed off from one heel of her stiletto shoes to accentuate the wiggle of her hips as she walked. I find wiggly hips really sexy.

The odd thing is that many girls think that their bums are too big and their cellulite is ugly. Big bums with dimply bits are wonderful!

You asked for a few notes on my more unusual activities.
For me pissing games started at school, in 1942, when I first drank some of my piss as a dare. It wasn't unpleasant and I soon became hooked, with the result that I still drink some every day. Those who look on the internet, under urolagnia, will find that various groups believe the practice to have medical benefits. I wouldn't know.
Later on I was reintroduced to watersports or golden showers (kid's didn't have special names for it) and I play with friends whenever I can. Inevitably such games result in other's piss going into your mouth. I don't bother , I just swallow. Indeed, when indulging in oral sex, I like to keep the penis in my mouth after it 'comes' until my partner relaxes and just lets it all flow. The first time this happened I was kneeling, fully clothed at the back of an adult cinema, and the alternative to swallowing would have meant a most embarrassing trip home on the bus!
Not a drop was spilled.
Now to shit - or coprophagia. I first got a faint taste of shit when wetting my fingers whilst doing a little probing of my anus. A little later on (forty years ago) I discovered that of the various objects one could use, none was better than an under-ripe, green banana, peeled. Lubricated with cooking oil or a spread such as Olivio it readily slides fully in and comes out again smoothly. The first of my bananas came out with a thin smear of shit. Not wanting to waste the banana, I ate it. To my surprise, the taste was quite bland and not at all unpleasant. Since then I have regularly used bananas and I always eat them, together with whatever else comes out.
Since then I have gone on , occasionally, to omitting the banana and just shitting and eating, either with other food, as in a sandwich, or on its own. An acquired taste, but so are many things, even whisky.
The flavour of shit is always pretty much the same, whereas urine is very variable. Beginners advised to drink loads of water before trying!
Have I ever tasted anyone else's shit? Risky, but yes. Rimming will always carry a faint taste.
In the 69 position I find it easier when my partner is on top sucking to use finger and tongue on the bum. If my fingers get a little shit on, so what.
Once, and once only, whilst in the 69 position with a girl she first pissed on my face, acceptable and not unexpected, and then shat in my mouth. Too much of a shock to be enjoyable.
Sometimes, with a friend we indulge in the other shit game of smearing. Rub some of our shit into the other's genitals and then lick it off. very enjoyable for both - if you like shit eating that is.
Why do I do it? I don't know, I have done it for years and I still enjoy it.

From Jim:

I first became intrigued with anal exploration in my early 20s. I don't really remember why it happened when it did, but I do remember enjoying the sensations of inserting my finger in that forbidden spot. I quickly realized that something longer and thicker than my finger might be more fun and I found a round-handled kitchen knife that worked quite well (the handle part of course). I then did a little research and discovered dildos and butt plugs. Masturbating with a dildo in the ass is an incredibly intense feeling. Anal intercourse can be extremely exciting, and Analingis is an extremely erotic event, however both require the utmost trust between you and your partner. I also have a vibrator with an anal sleeve that is quite interesting.

From Rob:

Even before digital cameras I had an interest in photography. Not that I had an expensive camera. I
just enjoyed taking snaps of fellow naturists. Now it is so much easier that I am digital, in particular to edit photos.
I'm still strictly an amateur though! Often I have photographed guys in more explicit poses, which as you may have guessed leads to them proudly showing off their erection. Even totally straight men seem to like showing themselves off !
Most guys are very willing to display their penis in an aroused state, but I do find coyness when the suggestion of a bum shot is mentioned!
A full back shot is OK, but only the most uninhibited actually allow me take close up shots, legs parted revealing the actual 'bum hole'.
It seems that this area is a very private spot for a man. Persuading a guy to show off his hole is quite a challenge for me.
Naked guys can be seen at naturist beaches and in the showers at the swimming baths, but if you think about it, the anal area is never seen. Thus making it quite a taboo area!
I'd be interested to read other guys views "Are you man enough to even discuss your 'bum hole', let alone reveal all to a photographer ?!".

From Graham:

Once again I feel compelled to write and congratulate you on some of the latest subjects on your pages. I have always enjoy your frank discussions of sometimes taboo subjects and have particularly enjoyed the naked photos and the wonderful erection photos,some truly lovely pictures. I have not logged on for a while for various reasons but when I did I was surprised and delighted to see your bum and anus gallery,again what marvellous photos,some lovely holes.

I myself was not really aware of the pleasure the anus can give until about 15 years ago. My wife had no interest in anything anal so we had never explored that avenue, but about 15 years ago I started seeing an older gay chap and he really taught be about the pleasures that anal stimulation can afford. First of all fingers,then anilingus,which he also taught me to perform,and then finally,after much discussion he mounted and penetrated me. After the initial resistance he fully entered me and the pleasure was intense,I suppose you can say I have never looked back.

Once again thankyou for your marvellous educational and thought provoking site(with lovely photos)

best regards

Graham

From Dave:

My first experience was a few years ago when I answered an advert in the local press for a 'naturist massage by mature male'.

I called the number a spoke to a well spoken man, like you called Peter, who told me the price and directed me to his address.

I suppose I was hoping that something would 'happen' as I was ready to explore that side of my sexuality. There was a period of some days between making first contact with Peter and actually attending and I spend this time going for a couple of sun beds, shaving my arse and trimming and shaving my pubic hair into a small tuft. I find that the anticipation leads to more excitement. By the time of the appointment I had decided that I would like to experience anything that came my way.

On the day of my appointment I arrived at a large detached house and the door was answered by a distinguished looking gent in his mid to late 60's. He invited me in and took me to an upstairs bedroom, instructing me to undress and lie on the bed, which I did. Peter also undressed completely. He was slim, toned, tanned all over, and was totally hairless.

Peter chatted away as he straddled my thighs, oiled my back and proceeded to give me a very accomplished massage. Soon he worked his way down to my buttocks and I thoroughly enjoyed the sensation as he oiled me up. Soon I realised that his massage strokes were in an outward direction, meaning that my buttocks were totally parted. I also realised that Peter would hold my buttocks open for a few seconds, and it thrilled me to think that he was looking at my exposed anus.

"You have a lovely arse" said Peter.
"Thanks" I replied.
"and your puckered hole is particularly appealing" said Peter.
"Thanks again" I told him.

I could feel Peter's cock rubbing against my arse, and he repeatedly directed it so it slid up my crack as he moved. I was aware he had become hard, so when he started to gaze at, and comment upon, my arsehole I suppose I knew then I was going to let him do whatever he wanted with me, and a delightful initiation it was.

Peter then asked if I minded him admiring my arse and I told him that I was very flattered. He then shifted his position and I then felt a wonderful sensation on my anus. It was a few moments before I realised that he was actually licking my arsehole. Involuntarily I lifted my hips off the bed to meet his tongue. "Ooh... I think we've discovered an eager little slut" Peter said. I said nothing to argue the point, I was enjoying it too much.

Peter then told me that he was going to photograph my arse to show his friends and refer to at a later date. I didn't argue as the thought of this excited me. He directed me onto my knees, legs wide apart and face on the pillow. He got his camera and instructed me to fuck myself with a finger as he photographed the action. This progressed to me using two, then three fingers on myself. I felt very naughty doing this but it waso thrilling. Peter continually told me what a slut I was, and this added to the thrill.

The remainder of the afternoon passed in a blur of me being photographed with a variety of dildos and butt plugs in my arse, the sizes ever increasing until I was stretched further than I thought possible. The session culminated in Peter penetrating me anally. This was my first time and I could hardly feel him as I was so loose, but it was the submissiveness of the act that I enjoyed, and the feeling of being so naughty as he called me a slut.

Afterwards Peter and I sat down with a coffee and perused the photographs. This made peter erect again and he told me to orally please him, which I gladly did. Another first. This entire experience made me realise that I gained enjoyment most when I was used for the enjoyment of others, a submissive slut as Peter called me. I visited Peter on other occasions and continued my 'education', trying to hone my pleasure giving skills. I also learned that I enjoyed being used in the presence of others, male and female.

On a subsequent visit I arrived and the door was answered by a grey haired, middle aged woman who was dressed very conservatively in tweed skirt and cardigan. She spoke very nicely, shook my hand and introduced herself as Sylvia, Peter's wife. She said Peter was expecting me, and led me upstairs. I was totally shocked as I had assumed Peter was gay.

When we entered the room Peter was already naked and told me to undress, as usual. I looked around and saw that Sylvia had sat down on the armchair and was looking directly at me. "Don't mind me" she said "Peter lets me watch occasionally as I am kind enough to let him continue with his little hobby. Don't pretend you are shy, as Peter has told me all about you". I undressed in front of her and felt a thrill as she looked at my cock, already semi-erect.

Sylvia watched whilst Peter and I indulged ourselves with each other until she said "Right... I want to see you fuck Peter". I explained that I had never done this before and didn't know if I wanted to. Sylvia told me not to be ridiculous and that it would be the same as fucking a woman in the arse.

She got Peter on his knees and applied lube to his arse. She then told me to kneel behind him and stroked my cock with her lubed hand, She then parted Peter's arse cheeks with her left hand as she offered my cock up to his hole with the other. I was really surprised that there was no mention of condoms at any time. Sylvia placed the end of my hardon to touch his anus and whispered "Push slowly". Her voice had become noticably husky.

I pushed as instructed and felt Peter's arse part and enclose around my cock "Oooh, how utterly lovely", Sylvia breathed as my cock slid into Peter. Being in his arse felt wonderful to me and I loved the fact that Sylvia was watching. Sylvia started to converse with Peter telling him how lucky he was having a lovely big cock in his arse and asking him how he felt. She then began to take close up photographs and I found it thrilling as she directed me as to how she wanted my cock. She then said, very quietly "Now I want you to fuck him really hard ". I did this to the best of my ability and soon came inside him. Sylvia thanked me, and then just walked out of the room.

Since this episode I have enjoyed ladies being present whilst indulging in man on man sex. For example, if I were to be on my knees before you, pleasuring you with my mouth, I would find it infinitely more exciting if your wife was present, fully clothed and watching us: perhaps giving me advice on technique, asking you how I was doing and maybe asking you to score my cocksucking skills. Strange to some perhaps but very enticing to me.

From James:

I had my first anal experience recently, at a naturist establishment on the South Coast. I had been there for a few hours, enjoying the facilities and engaging in some mutual masturbation with some of the other visitors. As time went on, the numbers dwindled until there were only a few people remaining. I went back to the rest rooms for a lie down, and after a few minutes, a chap put his head around the door to see what I was doing. As I had my erect penis in my hand, he rightly assumed that I was looking for some fun.

I followed him to another rest room where I began to masturbate him. He then indicated for me to suck him which I gladly did. Some moments later, he stood behind me and tried to force his erection inside me. This took me a little by surprise as I was not expecting this. He motioned for me to stay where I was, and disappeared for a minute or two. When he came back, he was carrying a condom. He put this on and I got on all fours on the bed with my arse facing him.

He began to push his penis inside me, but due to a combination of inexperience on my part and a lack of lubrication, it did not go in. He then laid down on the bed and I tried to sit on his penis. Again, it wasn't happening. He then got me to lie on my back with my legs in the air. He then tried again and slowly his penis entered me. There was a certain amount of pain, but it was bearable. After some minutes of thrusting, he announced that he was going to cum and then slowly he withdrew from my anus.

For the next few days it did feel like I was passing razorblades when I defacated, but the experience is one I would like to try again. I would also like to enter a man to feel what that is like.

Bill's desire to be submissive and his addiction to caining. His caning story:

It wasn't until I was in my mid thirties and ten years into my relationship with Michelle that I finally felt able to confess my shameful secret. The one I'd kept since I was nine years old. I was a masochist and submissive who yearned to be dominated, humiliated and beaten. Years since my childhood friend Tim and I would spank, whip and cane each other. Years of beating myself and hiding the marks from girlfriends. Welts on my backside, stomach, thighs and bruises on my penis. These sessions followed by intense, frantic masturbation. I was ashamed of my actions but compulsively drawn to them.

Tim and I lived near each other in a semi rural neighborhood where access to the bush and an escape from adult supervision allowed kids to get up to whatever they wanted. We both came from similar households; retiring, distant fathers and strong, authoritarian mothers. We were both beaten by our mothers and I guess a psychologist could make something of that.

We would play a game based on Tarzan, a popular TV show at the time. Tim and I would take off our clothes and wear only a string with a handkerchief over our crotches. We were basically naked and there was an air of eroticism even then. We would take turns taking each other prisoner. I still remember the delicious anticipation when as the "prisoner", I waited pressed up against a tree, for the sting of the cane as Tim flogged my naked bottom. I can't remember if we had erections or not and at the age of nine, there was no orgasms but it was still very sexual, even without us acknowledging it. After a caning, we would sometimes pull each other's buttocks apart to look at and sniff the other's anus.

These caning sessions carried on until I was eleven and then ceased, though I can't remember exactly why. I think we were getting too old to live with our "dirty little secret". Tim and I were still close friends and that part of our lives was just shelved. We never talked about it, though I continued to beat myself and had started inserting things into my anus, which I found very exciting and humiliating.

About a year on I was at Tim's place and for some reason, out of the blue, the subject came up. I have vague memories of us going across the road into the bush with a ping pong bat. Tim with no pants on, bent over and me beating him with the bat. His buttocks were red raw and Tim was moaning and shaking in a way he hadn't before. I'd given him about twenty strokes and stopped because I thought it was my turn. Tim straightened up and turned around, displaying his thick, purple erection and full, black pubic hair. He was a little older than me and had obviously gone through puberty. I realize now that he had been pulling himself while I beat him. His cock looked enormous and I said so. While looking straight at me he grabbed hold of it and almost immediately ejaculated, the spunk spurting out of him like a stream of piss followed by several large spurts. When his orgasm had subsided, we stood not knowing what to do next. His cock was still hard and a thirteen year old's erection is almost ninety degrees. The head of his cock was only about an inch from his stomach. I craved a beating too but we decided to head back.

We walked in silence until we were almost at the road. Tim stopped and said something along the lines of "I have to" and pulled his pants down. His penis was rock hard and he started pulling it. I said "I wish I could do that" and looked in my pants. I had a prepubescent erection which was so much smaller than Tim's and I was embarrassed about being hairless, so I didn't get it out. Tim asked me to hit him again but this time on his cock. I started spanking him with my hand, hard and he moaned with pleasure. I grabbed his cock like I'd seen him do and he ejaculated again, spurting his semen all over my t-shirt and shorts. After he finished, I cleaned up as best we could and went home.

The only time I've ever touched another penis. And with that, it was over. We never spoke about it even though we remained friends. What followed (I think for both of us) were solitary years of self beatings and compulsive masturbation. I lost my virginity to my girlfriend Sam, in London, age nineteen but continued to cane myself whenever possible. I also continued as a compulsive masturbator as I am to this day.

My partner Michelle confessed to me that she'd been having an affair for sometime after I confronted her about her odd behaviour and rather than being angry or jealous, I was turned on by the humiliation. She had come home from being with her lover and I wanted to lick her and taste his sperm. He had a bigger penis than me and was a great lover. It was then I told her of my obsession.

The first session I had with Michelle after confessing all was incredible. The excitement of being naked, on all fours, waiting for the cane. The sound alone was so arousing and the sting of the cane was ecstasy. It took a while to get Michelle to hit me hard enough (very hard). She started beating my erection and caning me directly on the anus as well. Typically, after being caned, I am too excited to have intercourse, so I lick Michelle to one or two orgasms and then pull myself. It's been some time since Michelle has taken a lover(in fact she'd had four) but still humiliates me about my penis size. The humiliation and canings are all related. Connected by what, I'm not exactly sure.

What I am sure of is there are a lot of men and woman out there like me.

I lost touch with Tim and found out recently he'd passed away. I found out too that several of my friends (and others) had slept with Tim's wife while he watched and masturbated.

This thing never leaves you. Not that i particularly want it too!

And a link to some pics of my caned arse:

https://xhamster.com/photos/gallery/my-caned-arse-4857087

See what you think and ask me any questions,