Exhibitionism

I have always thought that nudists / naturists have more than their fair share of exhibitionist genes in their dna. To strip off naked and let others, including strangers, see their nude body, is certainly un-usual by society's standards, yet we do it and not only enjoy being nude, but I suspect that many actually enjoy showing their nude bodies to others.


The definition of 'exhibitionist' appears to vary. Here are a few definitions:

 "someone who tries to get people's attention all the time by behaving in a way that most people think is silly":
"someone who tries to attract attention to themselves by their behaviour":
"A person who behaves in an extravagant way in order to attract attention":
"someone who constantly tries to attract attention, particularly sexual attention, in public":
"someone who derives sexual gratification from fantasies or acts that involve exposing one's genitals to a non-consenting stranger";
"The act or practice of deliberately behaving so as to attract attention".

Attracting attention of others appears to be a central theme. I would certainly call myself an exhibitionist. I'm more than happy to be naked in front of strangers, but I'm not sure that I do it to attract attention. I just do it because I'm totally comfortable in my skin and I really do not care who sees me with no clothes on, regardless of what I'm doing! So I'm not sure that I fit into any of the above definitions.


I am clearly not alone in being happy, nude in front of the camera, and letting the world see the results. There are those who are just happy so show off their nudity. There are others who are happy to show off their sensual side, and there are others who are quite happy to have sex on camera.

I think that there are multiple levels of exhibitionism depending on the individual, from 'being seen by strangers, but quite cautious' to 'leaving absolutely nothing to the imagination, full sex on video'. I have certainly evolved through many stages as I have become braver about showing off my body to strangers. My 'take' on the levels of exhibitionism comes to some 16 stages - see where you fit, of feel free to suggest an alternative scoring system:

Stages of exnibitionism

1 Letting yourself be seen nude by strangers.
2 Having your nude photos taken.
3 Having your nude photos posted on the internet.
4 Showing your erect penis or vagina or anus to strangers.
5 Taking photos of your erect penis or vagina or anus.
6 Posting photos of your erect penis or vagina or anus on the internet.
7 Taking videos of your erect penis or vagina or anus.
8 Posting videos of your erect penis or vagina or anus on the internet.
9 Taking masturbation photos.
10 Posting your masturbation photos on the internet.
11 Taking masturbation videos.
12 Posting masturbation videos on the internet.
13 Taking photos or you having sex.
14 Posting photographs of you having sex on the internet.
15 Taking videos of you having sex.
16 Posting videos of you having sex on the internet.

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Your Exhibitionist stories:

Wife's Exhibitionism

In the early 1970s I got married to "C" and we had been going out for about 3 years. I was working for an international company whose HQ was in Holland and she worked in an accounts office. We had a good circle of friends, I played rugby and C was a member of the local Am Dram society. So we were having a good time, me my rugby matches on Saturday and training night in the week and C doing her AmDram. There were some good "nightclubs in the city which were great for dancing and had up and coming groups, C loved dancing, I usually left her to it after the first few, I couldn't keep up with her, so I watched and had a few beers until she was ready to go home.

I wasn't into Am Dram so I usually went to a pub for a beer or 2 when she was in a production and picked her up later. She was always high afterwards and we usually went to a club and her dancing was wild. There were always guys looking at her and she seemed to enjoy it. These were the days of the mini skirt etc! and hers' were always micro! She seemed to get quite buzz from being watched her dresses were also "skimpy" . It was fantastic when we got home !!!!!!! She got really turned on being centre of attention. In the plays she was always the "sexy young woman" . I eventually was persuaded to go to the Saturday night performance, the last performance of the play.

This was the 70s and plays were pushing the boundaries. She told me I would enjoy the performance, so I went. The first act was OK she was dressed, just, in short skirt, showing brief pants and a tight top leaving little to the imagination. The second act - wow she was in a diaphanous (transparent) short nighty and even smaller pants.

This gave me a bit of a buzz, thinking all those eyes on her. After the show a group of us went to a club. C was buzzing and was wearing the clothes from the fist act. She was straight onto the dance floor and doing her wild dancing. I'd not seen her as high as this before, no drink or drugs had been taken, just pure adrenaline!! When we got home it was electric!!!!!!

When we eventually woke up and got breakfast I asked her how she was feeling, absolutely brilliant still buzzing . Then she told me that when she was in a play or dancing it wasn't her. It was her other self, the one that wanted to expose herself and turn men (and women) on and see the effect she had on them. She did not want to have sex with them, just to be adored and desired!!! I was not sure how to take this.

A few months later I was offered a post at Head Office which was in the Hague, in the Nederlands. C and I talked about it as it meant her leaving her job at the accountants. We decided to go. We rented a house in the suburbs, it was just right. Close to transport and a thriving local community. C managed to get a day time job in a local CafeBar. We quickly made young friends from the local area and they introduced us to Amsterdam. This was a "Happening place" in the mid 70s. We used to go up for the night on Friday or Saturday, our friends introducing us to various Bars, restaurants and clubs and especially "clothes shops" which C could not resist. These were not your C&A regular type shops, the clothes were minimal and didn't keep you warm !!! She was in her element!!!

We and a couple of friends started staying overnight on Friday and Saturday night. The pattern became a latish meal with alcohol, enough to lubricate the "excitement brain", then a couple of Bars on the way to a club. C was buzzing by this stage her dress was usually minimal with the least vestige of decency. The girls with us were a little more modest; we guys just accepted it and enjoyed the view. The club we went most times was The Candy Club, we became well known there and we were accepted as regulars, drinks costing less than the usual punters just off the street.

One night we decided we had had enough (about 2 in the evening) and said we were going back to hotel, C had other ideas. She insisted in staying. The hotel was about 3 minutes walk away and the Bar staff said they would keep an eye on her and get her back to the hotel. Off we went, when I got to our room sensibility crept into my mind and I decided to return to the Club, I signalled to the bar staff not to tell C I was back. The layout of the club was an irregular shaped dance floor with disco at one end, a lighting display overhead and tiered steps to sit on 3 sides. Behind this were tables and chairs in low light over looking the dance floor and then the Bar at the back.

I got a beer and I looked around for her I couldn't see and started thinking the worst then I saw her with a group, mainly girls down at the edge of the dance floor. I sat at one of the tables at the back with a good view of the floor. The music changed to one of her favourites and there she was back on the floor, dancing with the girls. She was on fire and giving it her all, gradually taking up more space as others moved to the side, the spot light was on her. Then I noticed she was naked underneath the shear dress she had on and so were the other girls. The bottom tier around the dance floor filled with "admirers " mainly men. The viewers were cheering, clapping and urging her and the girls on. The music changed to a slower one she continued in an incredibly sensuous manner. She moved round the edge like a cat and displaying herself raunchily to the audience. ( Note she was shaved, unusual in the 70s)

I was transfixed, feeling 1. Proud 2. Unsure what to do. The music changed to a slightly quicker beat, she continued by now a solo performance, prowling round the edges of the dance floor then bursting into the middle. The second time she did this she removed the dress and danced under the spotlight totally naked. There was so much clapping, cheering etc it was deafening. The music finished, C walked back naked through the applauding crowd to her table which was over flowing with drinks from her admirers, She stood there naked thanking them, she was buzzing and so was I!!

I went down to the stage and picked up her dress and joined the crowd admiring her, she was radiant and I was so proud. She saw me at last, I gave a thumbs up and she came to me and we hugged tightly. We then said good night to everyone and we walked back to the hotel with our arm entwined, s still naked !!very satisfied people. Our love making was unbelievable that night.

The interesting thing was that I did not see anyone touch her inappropriately, lots of close looking, admiration, cheering but no touching.

Did we go back? Yes. Did she do it again? Yes and at other Clubs but the Candy Club was our favourite. After two years in Holland we returned to UK me back to the same company with a promotion and C to being a mother to our first child. No more exhibitionism? Well, not for another 3 years.


Daves Exhibitionist Stories

The first one was from a man in Bournemouth whom I travelled to see. When I arrived we had a brief conversation about what I would be willing to do and being quite liberal what he suggested was not a problem . He also wanted to video me and had his video camera already set up . 

We started off with me stripping down to one of my micro g strings and before long I was completely naked and very erect. He then came up to me and started to play with my very excited cock . After a while he brought out a massage table and asked me to lie on this. I duly obeyed . He then wanted me to masturbate in front of him which was a real turn on. After this he came up to me and started to masturbate me and then we both held my throbbing penis and masturbated it together. He was filming this the whole time and the end photo session was of me masturbating by myself and cumming all over my stomach, balls and penis. 

After the session he played the video back to me which was a real turn on and I couldn't help but get erect again which he soon sorted out ! 

When I left we were both very satisfied with the outcome. 

The second experience related to a guy near Exeter whom I also travelled to see. He wanted to take loads of photos of me in my micro g strings and then nude and erect both in his house and in his garden. Again a lovely sensual  experience stripping to my various assortment of strings and then nude. He then asked me to lay on the bed where he took more photos and then he lay beside me and started to masturbate me. I did not resist because I am a real exhibitionist and loved to show off my body  . It wasn't long before I orgasmed very heavily with my cum hitting his headboard behind me. He also asked me to lie naked in the bath where he soaped me up and masturbated me and took more photos. It was not long before I was again cumming .

I left there happy and exhausted having cum three times during the photo session.

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Sometimes I go to a place in Menorca for a holiday where there is a long nudist beach with dunes behind. 

Something I simply love to do as often as possible is strip to a micro string and of course also completely naked I just cannot resist showing off my naked body to anyone who might be interested and when such interest is shown and it is clear I am not going to cause offence then the exhibitionist comes out in me and I start to play to that interest . I am happy to pose and show off in front of both men and women.

So it was on the second day of my holiday that interest was shown by not one but two guys who were about 10 metres apart watching me as I arrived at the beach. To start with I stripped to just a g string and walked to the waters edge in just this . I could feel their eyes on me which I confess started to cause my cock to twitch. I walked slowly back to my towel so they could get  a good look at me in my brief attire and semi hard penis. 

Standing by my towel I now lowered my string and stood naked about 15 metres or so from both guys. I then decided to oil my body starting with my upper torso , then legs , finally finishing with my penis and balls and as I rubbed the oil into my cock I knew both guys were watching intently so I put on a display for them and got very hard indeed as I rubbed my penis up and down slowly to start and then quicker so that I was blatantly masturbating in front of them. Since I had my camera with me I then took a variety of photos whilst they looked on. 

I then wondered into the dunes behind, naked but also with cock rings and with some g strings and my camera. It wasn't long before I was followed by both guys. My penis was throbbing in anticipation of such blatant exhibitionism .. As they approached we exchanged ''hellos'' and got talking and it wasn't long before I explained how I love to pose naked and erect in front of strangers and they confirmed how they are very happy and turned on by looking at a naked and erect guy. I then asked if I could do some posing in g strings, cock rings and naked for them and they eagerly confirmed ''yes'' and I asked  if they could take photos on my camera to record my posing session which they were more than happy to do. 

The session began with me in cock rings and strings and then naked . I eagerly masturbated for them and they both asked if they could rub oil into my naked body and penis which of course I agreed to. Needless to say it did not take long for me to spray a huge amount of cum over my body and into the sand.

I have had many variations to the above over many years and I always get hugely turned on by my exhibitionism .

Dave


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