Natural Insemination - Sperm Donors

Modern technologies have made it possible for virtually any woman to have a child. In vitro fertilization (IVF) has given couples who previously would not have been able to have a kid the possibility of starting a family. However, many people still choose to get pregnant the old fashioned way. Natural insemination is the formal term for getting pregnant through sexual intercourse.

This is the way that people have been getting pregnant since the beginning of time. It is by far the easiest way to achieve pregnancy.

Traditionally, sperm donor websites help connect single women, lesbian or infertile couples with male donors willing to give sperm samples through artificial insemination. However, more and more women are now turning to online services to set up a time to have sex with their donors because "natural insemination" is believed to be more than three times more effective than artificial insemination.

As a natural insemination donor, you are not only providing your sperm, but providing it by sexual intercourse. However whether you are the sperm donor or the sperm donor recipient, pregnancy and child birth by natural insemination with a stranger does raise a whole raft of questions.

Some of the more obvious guidelines are given below:

* Insist on health test results including STI's and genetic conditions
* Insist on fertility tests such as sperm count, motility and morphology.
* ID Check - is your donor who he says he is?
* Always tell a friend where you will be and who you are meeting
* Don't feel pressured into NI and report any members who are acting inappropriately.

There are various websites that advertise natural insemination services for both donors and recipients. As a donor interersted in natural insemination, you have to say that you are willing to partake in natural insemination.

I was not aware of natural insemination until a lady reader of my website told me her story, which is given below:

 

My husband has never had any problems getting an erection or ejaculating but we couldn't conceive due to him having a low sperm count.

Personally I didn't want try IVF as it felt too cold to me. I wanted conceive a child as normally as possible.

We now have 4 children.

My husband and I knew a few people who worked in and around dating agencies due to us both having worked in hospitality. We made discreet inquiries with those we knew as there wasn't an agency who would deal with 'Natural Insemination' and what it means.
As we didn't want dating or relationships as such we needed men who would only be needed to get me pregnant.

All we needed were 4 men who were willing to have sex with me without there being anything seedy involved. The sexual intercourse would not be just a 'one night stand', but could go on for days and weeks as it was all about getting me pregnant, and trying to tie in with my menstrual cycle.

We chose 'one man, one baby' only because as we didn't want each child to have the same father so each child would be unique.

The men who I chose to be the father of each of my children were thoroughly vetted and I each got to know them personally. Each man had to undergo a strict medical to make sure they could conceive a child with me.

The first was a 51 year old academic while I was 23. Quite a gap I know but he fitted the bill. Over a few months I got to know him quite well. Once I'd definitely decide he was to be first we drew up legal documents that we both signed to say he'd have no role in the raising of the child or any financial role too. Basically I'd never want any money from him then or ever in the future.

Once everything was in place we stayed at a villa in Portugal for 2 weeks. In the same bed obviously.

It had to be a bit sensual for him to get an erection. I mostly went on top so he could watch and caress my boobs, thighs and clit which aroused both of us. He could also see himself going in and out of me. Due to the physical sensations I did regularly reach orgasm which made me feel very guilty at first as they were not with my husband. However the man and myself agree that to make me pregnant he'd had to orgasm in me which helped me a great deal.

When riding him we would talk about all sorts and not really what we were doing as the actions of our bodies would make him cum eventually.

I never had any problem with having sex when I was with any of the men if the end result was pregnancy. With the first guy we had sex twice a day once in the morning and then in the late evening. The next day we would do in again once and then again twice the next day. That way he wouldn't dry out as it were.

My husband was fine with it. He'd met each guy and given them his seal off approval.

Two of the men had kids and the men were chosen due to looking similar to my husband. I didn't see many photos of their kids. 

Another story from one of my website readers:

His wife actually had no problem with the idea and thought it great that I had the courage to ask him. He did think himself lucky that he could be useful to someone in that way and that I could trust him.

It certainly wasn't a one night stand as the week we spent in Athens was great. We did the usual tourist traps and also had plenty of sex. We both enjoyed the sex. He loved when I lap danced naked around him in our hotel room. I was a toned 22yo brunette with waist length hair and big boobs so obviously he loved it.

Neither of us was nervous about the first penetration.

In the build-up to going to Athens to have sex for the first time we both into a fitness regime. As I've said I joined their swimming group so we could meet without raising suspicions but also where I could get fitter.

He started to take more exercise to improve his stamina and his wife put him on a more healthy diet to improve the quality of his sperm. He was trim and toned already but every little bit helps. He started jogging too, which I was already doing. I would jog past his house at a prearranged time and stop to tie a shoelace. When on this jog I would wear tight fitting clothes so his wife and him could check out how my fit regime was going.

Once we'd got as fit as we were going to be we both flew to Athens separately. Once at the hotel I went straight up to our room. He arrived the day before me. After our greetings and putting our clothes away we went to the restaurant for a meal and drinks.

We decided how we were first going to see each other naked beforehand. In the hotel room we stood about 10 feet apart not facing one another and got completely undressed and on the count of 3 both turned around together. We circled each other for about 10 minutes admiring and running our fingers over each other's body.
We compared what each other looked like naked to what we'd imagined beforehand. My shoulders and hips were broader than he thought they would be. The guy and myself found out that the other's ass was firmer than we thought. He had more chest hair than I thought he would have had. I loved it.

He started to caress my boobs which to his delight were firmer than he thought they would be. They were bigger too. He imagined a C cup but I was and still am a D cup. His cock started to become erect. It was long and his prick was bulbous. I dropped to my to gently suck it.

Once I'd finished dancing around him naked and him fully erect I sat on the edge of the bed and beckoned him to me. He stood there as I gently gave him cock more sucking. Then I lay back on the bed on my elbows and brought back my legs opening myself fully to him.

He them put the very tip of his cock in me then started running his hands over my boobs, arms tummy and legs to get himself even more aroused if that were possible. Once done he then held onto my waist as he slowly eased his whole length into me. We both sighed heavily as it was very pleasurable for both. I threw back my head while he arched his back slightly and closed his eyes taking in the pleasure.

Neither of us wanted it to be a simple act of two animals basically mating. We were there to make a baby and although the baby wouldn't know her father we were still both adults going through a deep process of creating a life.

We had a few long weekends away over about 5 months before I became pregnant.. We'd mainly use the sexual position of me lying back on my elbows while he stood by the edge of bed.

When he was in me for the first time and we were both comfortable he slowly took up a gentle rhythm. His hands were on my waist and every now and again stopped to rub my body with his hands. My pussy was wet and getting wetter and he said his cock was starting to get hot and likewise his balls too. This continued for about 20 mins and I started to stroke my clit. After another 10 mins I reached orgasm. It wasn't a powerful one but he could tell I was having one and he felt pleased I was comfortable enough to have one with him. He stopped to watch me have it but stayed in me.

After another 15 mins he said he could feel himself getting harder and that his cock and balls were tingling and that he felt could cum at any moment. He started to sweat and his rhythm became erratic while starting to breathe while his eyes closed every now and again. Just before he came he speeded up and was pushing himself harder into me as though trying to get as further into me as he could.

When he came he let out a massive sigh of pleasure and was covered in sweat from head to foot. He was still standing and still in me for another 5 mins and then withdrew so I could pull by my legs so his cum didn't run out of me. He lay on the bed next to me cooling down. I lay there with my legs pulled back for a couple of hours while he lay next to me cooling down.

My story is complete. Once I became pregnant we still had holidays abroad and weekends away and were always naked most of the time. He loved to be me getting bigger and bigger as the pregnancy progressed. Three years later we did it again for my second daughter.

There are lots of other similar stories from both sperm donors and recipients on this website.

Other related websites:

Co-Parent

Pride Angel

 


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